Handling Jealousy

24 March 2017
This is an interesting dream which shows how some people act when they feel jealous. Jealous is the feeling which comes from fear of losing something someone has like a certain position in a company or family. Envy is similar but different and comes from the feeling of wanting something that someone doesn’t have and it may not even be God’s Will for them to have. The solution to dealing with someone who has a lot of jealousy is to include them. If they do not respond positively to the opportunity then you can leave them to themselves.
Here is an example of a dream where someone had a lot of jealousy and then went into a temper-tantrum when they didn’t get their own way and felt left out even though others were trying to include them.
In the dream I’m moving into a new house although I’m not altogether happy with it. It’s large enough, which is good, but it’s older than I like and it seems I have no money for renovations to even bring the beauty in the old out. I also have no choice of furniture and for a while am trying to move in a dresser & desk which have broken drawers. Finally someone (my mom?) sees they are broken & unsuitable and she orders a bunch of new furniture from a liquidation warehouse.
I bring them upstairs to my room which is appears I am sharing with my sister although I somehow sense it won’t be as bad as I fear.
Someone (my aunt?) goes in to have a bath & I give her instructions because one of the pipes & faucets leak.
I lay out towels to catch the water and show her how.
Then back downstairs a friend comes over and joins my sister & I in an activity. At some point I sense my sister’s episode coming out. I step in to ask some questions and say a few things so that it protects my friend. A.C. becomes enraged at me and she screams as she runs upstairs. From upstairs she hollars and stomps around crying.
I try to console my friend saying it had nothing to do with any of us, it was just her own issue and if we leave her to herself she will recover and come back down in time.
The friend is clearly confused but also believes me.
We set about to do something in the kitchen/dining room area.
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